Have you ever been so discouraged that you felt like giving up on your faith?

There are 3 principles that we should reflect on when we are suffering physically or emotionally.

First of all, during our times of suffering, God is near even when he seems so far away from us. Have you ever felt that God was no where to be found when you needed Him the most? When we experience difficult trials and tribulations, and times of suffering, we normally pray to God and ask Him for immediate relief. However, as we all know, God answers prayer in His own time, so we may not receive immediate help from Him. We may have to go through many days, or weeks, or months or years of trying times. And after suffering awhile we start wondering why God hasn't intervened. We begin questioning ourselves. What have I done to deserve this and then we begin to question whether or not God even cares. We feel as though God has abandoned us and that He is nowhere to be found. We feel alone and isolated from God.

In (Psalm 13:1), how did David feel while he was running for his life from Saul?
David experienced a feeling of isolation from God, he believed that God was not with him during his time of intense trials. It is common and natural to feel isolated from God when we experience difficult times, however, the Bible assures us that God is present even when He seems far away.
Even when God seems 1,000 miles away and uninterested in our affairs, He is with us step-by-step during our difficult times. A wonderful illustration of this unseen presence is described in (Luke 24:13-35).




Second, God's timing is perfect with His assistance, even when he appears catastrophically late. When we suffer, we naturally want God to immediately take away our pain. But sometimes, we think that He can be agonizingly slow in solving the problems that we bring to His attention. Tell us of a time where you felt that God was slow with His assistance.

But even though at times God seems to be late with His assistance, I would like to say that His timing is always perfect. In (John 11:1-46), Jesus raised Lazarus from the dead. How does this story show that God's timing is always perfect?
(John 11:1-46) tells the story of Mary, Martha, and their brother Lazarus. The members of this little family were among Jesus’ closest friends during the time of His earthly ministry. In fact, verse 5 says, “Jesus loved Martha and her sister and Lazarus.”

Well, one day, Lazarus became very ill, almost to the point of death, so his sisters did the logical thing--they sent an urgent note to Jesus, saying, “Lord, the one you love is sick” (v. 3). Now they had every reason to believe He would immediately respond. However, days had passed before Jesus finally made it to Lazarus and by that time it was too late, he had already died. On Jesus’ arrival, we read that Martha came to Jesus and said, “if you had been here, my brother would not have died.” Do you think that Martha could have been a bit discouraged that Jesus was to late? Could she have been annoyed when He showed up because she expected Jesus to be there for them. She may have been tempted to say,” Where have you been, Sir? You’re too late now. You could have saved him, but apparently there were more important things on your mind.” Do we at times get angry at God because of His delayed timing?

But in (v. 43), Jesus performed one of His most dramatic miracles as He called Lazarus out of the tomb. You see, Jesus was not late at all. He only appeared to be overdue. He arrived at the precise moment necessary to fulfill the purposes of God--just as He always does. God’s purpose was fulfilled through Lazarus because in v. 45, we read that many Jews because of what they had seen but their faith in Jesus. You see, Brethren, God is never late when it comes to Him handling our painful situations. He is always on time: His time and not our time. When we suffer, there is a possibility that God is allowing us to go through it for His purpose and for our own good.

Why does God allow us to suffer instead of immediately taking care of our problems?
In (Rom. 5:3-4), we read that suffering will build our character. Suffering makes us stronger and better Christians.



Lastly, during our times of suffering, the most important thing to do is keep our faith and trust in God.
Why do some people, after experiencing a tragic situation, blame God and give up on their faith? Should we blame God for all of the tragedies in the world?
Some people believe that God is the one who brought the disaster so they blame Him and give up their faith. Some people blame God for things that He doesn’t do. For example, if a brother or sister in Christ dies tragically, some people reply, “It was just God’s will,” even though the brother or sister was killed by a drunk driver or gunned down by an angry person. God never put the liquor in that driver, or a bullet in that person’s gun, and God did not kill those people. Some events that happen are not God’s will. Many tragic events are caused by the devil. He has the “power of death” (Heb. 2:14). He is responsible for the illnesses and accidents that cause pain and death (Jn. 8:44). The devil brought sickness and death into the world by bringing sin into the world, and he is still doing it today. Yes, God allows terrible things to happen, but the only way He could avoid that would be to take away our power of choice and make us all robots. Bad things happen to good people. However, for Christians, according to (Rom. 8:28 NASV), “God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God.” In other words, even out of the bad things that Satan brings into our lives – accidents, sickness, etc. – God will bring good out of them for us, if we let Him. From suffering we learn humility and patience. From the death of a loved one, we learn compassion and the power of faith and hope.

What did Job do after he experienced severe tragedy in his life (Job 1:2)?
When Job lost his sons and daughters, his wealth, his servants, and was stricken with painful soars that spanned throughout his body, it would have been easy for him to blame God and abandon his faith. However, the Bible says that Job “fell to the ground” (Job 1:20) and worshipped God. He held onto his faith in God even thought his life was full of pain and agony. When we go through tough times, the most important thing for us to do is to keep our faith in God.

Thanks for reading, remember do not worry about tomorrow, it will have enough worries of its own. There is no need to add to the troubles each day brings (Matthew 6:34).
God Bless you.